Managing Difficult Conversations Training
Managing Difficult Conversations Training
You know that sinking feeling when you see someone approaching your desk with "that look" on their face? Or when you realize you're the one who has to deliver the bad news, give the tough feedback, or address the elephant in the room that everyone's been tiptoeing around? We've all been there. Most of us would rather reorganize our sock drawer than have a difficult conversation at work, but here's the thing - avoiding them just makes everything worse.
I've seen managers hide behind emails for weeks rather than address a performance issue face-to-face. I've watched teams fall apart because nobody wanted to tackle the brewing conflict between two key players. And I've witnessed promising careers stall because people couldn't figure out how to navigate those uncomfortable but necessary conversations that come with any workplace.
The truth is, difficult conversations aren't actually difficult because of the topic - they're difficult because we don't know how to approach them. When you understand the structure, the psychology, and the practical techniques that work, these conversations become much more manageable. You'll still feel nervous (that's human), but you'll have the tools to work through it professionally and effectively.
This isn't about becoming confrontational or aggressive. It's about learning to address issues before they become bigger problems. You'll discover how to stay calm when emotions run high, how to frame sensitive topics in ways that don't put people on the defensive, and how to actually solve problems rather than just venting frustrations. We'll also cover how to handle it when the other person gets emotional, shuts down, or tries to deflect the conversation entirely.
The practical applications are immediate. Whether you're dealing with a colleague who consistently misses deadlines, an employee whose attitude is affecting the whole team, or a boss who keeps changing priorities without explanation, you'll have specific strategies for each situation. You'll learn the difference between being direct and being harsh, and how to maintain working relationships even when you have to deliver uncomfortable truths.
What You'll Learn
How to prepare for difficult conversations so you feel confident going in, not like you're walking into a minefield. You'll understand how to frame the issue, anticipate reactions, and plan your key messages so the conversation stays productive rather than turning into an argument.
The actual conversation structure that works - how to open these discussions without immediately putting people on the defensive, how to keep things on track when emotions flare up, and how to close with clear next steps that actually get followed through.
Managing difficult conversations training techniques for staying calm under pressure, including what to do with your body language, your voice, and your own emotional reactions when things get heated.
How to separate the person from the problem, so you can address behaviors and outcomes without making it feel like a personal attack on someone's character or worth as a human being.
Specific phrases and approaches for different types of difficult conversations - performance issues, conflict between team members, policy violations, budget cuts, and those awkward situations where you have to tell someone their idea just isn't going to work.
Recovery strategies for when conversations go sideways, including how to take a productive break, how to get back on track, and how to repair relationships after a particularly challenging discussion.
The Bottom Line
After this training, you'll stop dreading these conversations and start seeing them as just another professional skill you can handle competently. You'll save time and stress by addressing issues directly instead of letting them fester, and you'll build stronger working relationships because people will respect your ability to communicate honestly and fairly. Most importantly, you'll become the kind of leader or colleague that others trust to handle sensitive situations professionally, which is a reputation that will serve you well throughout your career. The conversations won't magically become fun, but they'll definitely become doable.
Available in Perth, with mastering meetings skills also offered for comprehensive communication development.